What is fisting?

Advanced sexual technique

Fisting, fist-fucking or handballing is a sexual activity. The term is used to describe the act of inserting one or two full hands, up to the wrist, into the anus or vagina. It requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication. Once insertion is complete, the fingers are either clenched into a fist or kept straight. It is considered to be an advanced technical process requiring extremely sensitive care, trust and a whole lot of lubricant.  It is not only a popular practise among evolved (kinky) gays, but also by women who have the advantage to receive a fist in 2 different holes ;-). Fisting is most often a partnered activity, but it can be done also solo, called self-fisting.

Extremely exciting

Sometimes fisting can be very kinky, and there are many forms in which fisting can be done. For sure it will definitely upgrade your (boring) sexlife! It all depends how open-minded you are to try out a much thicker object penetrating your insides, then you normally are used to. The process of inserting a fist to achieve sexual stimulation is extremely exciting, not like any other sex act. But you must take your time and need to be careful not to hurt your partner. If not approached with caution and care, it can cause safety issues such as (unwanted) prolapse, fissures, damage to the rectum and increased risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Use of latex (or similar) gloves on your hands and a lot of lubrication is recommended. Many fisters also choose to use poppers and other drugs, which help for relaxation and fun, but these need to be taken with responsibility in mind. Play safe and smart!

Hand in the butt

Fisting is communication (mostly non-verbal), it’s technique, and it’s psychology. It can come as a surprise, but a hand in the butt is not all that fisting is. It’s a very sophisticated and intimate form of sex that can lead to feelings more pleasurable than you ever thought possible, and it is a journey of discovery and understanding. That journey to reach those wonderful feelings has many obstacles along the way, and in this guide we want to help you overcome each one.